Dear Friends in Christ -
I was in the post office today, laden with packages and cards. After I had processed the packages with the postmaster and purchased my stamps, the lady in line behind me said, "Wow. You're so organized;you put me to shame. I haven't started my shopping yet or done my Christmas cards."
I laughed and told her the truth: the packages were Advent calendars to our godchildren, which I rushed around and bought and mailed today, in vain hope of my godchildren in Washington and California receiving them before Advent begins in less than a week. And the "cards" were actually invitations to a party that's happening in less than two weeks; proper etiquette says they should have gone out two weeks ago.
"Whew," she said, "now I don't feel so bad."
How often do we perceive that everyone else is "ahead" of us? Managing their time better? Finding the better bargains?
These perceptions that we have are often not only untrue, they're also dangerous. They cause us to feel inferior and defeated.
As the holidays approach, I invite you to join me in the holy discipline of self esteem. Every time you're tempted to think that someone else is doing more/better, give yourself a pat on the back for the good choices you're making. Say yes to what is good for YOU and YOUR family, and say no to things that don't bring YOU life and joy. Then ask God to help you have confidence in your good choices.
As your self-perception changes from "I'm behind and struggling" to "I'm making good choices and I'm happy about them", so you will be. Happy. And even more connected to the power of God in daily living.
Faithfully with you in this holy discipline,
Janet+
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