Less Hurry, More Holy: When everything that can go wrong . . .

Dear Friends in Christ -

Today, I had one of THOSE days . . . when a whole series of best-laid plans had to be scrapped, when a whole string of hoped-for things didn't materialize. Sigh!

In wrapping things up for the evening, I stumbled over the following email, something lingering in my inbox since last week. For me, now is just the time for these words, written by one of my clergy colleagues, David Anderson.

May David's reflection encourage your heart as much as it is encouraging mine.

Blessings,
Janet+

When Everything That Can Go Wrong DOES Go Wrong
By David Anderson

In her wonderful book, "Traveling Mercies," Anne Lamott relates a striking story.

"Carolyn Myss, the medical intuitive who writes and lectures about why people don't heal, flew to Russia a few years ago to give some lectures. Everything that could go wrong did---flights were canceled or overbooked, connections missed, her reserved room at the hotel given to someone else. She kept trying to be a good sport, but finally, two mornings later, on the train to her conference on healing, she began to whine to the man sitting next to her about how infuriating her journey had been thus far. It turned out that this man worked for the Dalai Lama. And he said---gently---that they believe when a lot of things start going wrong all at once, it is to protect something big and lovely that is trying to get itself born---and that this something needs for you to be distracted so that it can be born as perfectly as possible."

We have all lived through periods when everything seems to go wrong. What if we could believe that such moments were crackling with the power and presence of God? What if we could see it all as a holy distraction---God diverting us so that something big could be born?

It's true. We have to be distracted, otherwise we'd try to "help" it be born. Or we'd try to kill it. We'd worry to death about what could go wrong at its birth. We would try to control its gestation, its formation, to make it what we think it needs to be.

Advent is a gestational season. Something big is aborning. If things are chaotic and going hopelessly wrong right now, lift up your head. In a moment of quiet, ask God if something is being born. And then---don't touch it. Let it be.